Chelsea Morning, you don't look old enough to be menopausal! I remember seeing you at the Covent Garden lunch and you looked perfectly okay to me!I'm in my early forties and am certainly finding it a lot more difficult to keep my weight down as I get older - why can't I be one of these people with a mega fast metabolism?

Still, life's too short to worry about it too much, so I guess it's just all things in moderation and crawl to the gym when I feel in the mood! Another thing - don't you think that "you're looking well" is another way of saying "you've put on the pounds!".That really is one of the most irritating remarks ever invented!!