Sad to say the Kevin Murphy products didn't work for me.
I think I'm going to go back to Dove Pro Age products,having also tried Philip Kingsley.Tony and Guy,John Freida etc. Dove have given the best results and they are the cheapest too.
Boots ,Sun ,Swim and Gym also seems to give my hair a really good clean and leaves it shiny when I've used it.So I think I'll just accept what I've got and get on with it.
Thanks for your help Marg.It's not your fault I've got weird hair!