Years ago when my mother-in-law's partner was diagnosed with dementia the doctors sent a nurse to visit the house. She was there to look after the needs of my MIL and gave her a large loose leaf file with notes answering every question you could think of including a testimonial from a woman who had been diagnosed and her description of how she lived with it. It was extremely illuminating and helpful. I wonder if this is still available, or maybe it depends where in the country you are.