I think you were very unlucky in that respect Janine but for me, it would always be children first. You have 2 lovely children from the marriage, I'd say you are very blessed. 50 is young these days, you can move on when you are ready, me I'd never bother again unless Prince Charming came along as thats what I'm used to

When I read the life coach specialises in men who have been made redundant I got this picture in my head, hope I'm wrong because as Pat says we can't tar them all the same.