You are right and I don't really tar all Life Coaches with the same brush. I just think people should be aware that as it isn't regulated, a lot of very troubled people enter the industry - yes, she is very troubled and sees a psychotherapist twice a week for her own insecurities - and can cause havoc!

She specialises in men who have been made redundant - he had been, and had been out of work for a year and very depressed - and I think he was very vulnerable and easy to influence and manipulate.

I am bitter, but extra so, as he did beg to come home and did so 6 times - so things can't be right with HER either. This behaviour hasn't 'allowed' me to move on easily. Apparently she is 'very intense and only happy in a crisis or drama'. She is also very melancholy and needs to have a lot of attention and money spent on her.

I hope I will be happy again one day. I have seen a counsellor and a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist in the past.

I do take on board what you say though. Thank you.

Janine XXX