Hi SueJane, Please may I say that you have got a job,it is a vocational one,but nevertheless it is a job,and the most important job that you can ever do. You know what it is don't you? Caring for your son.

That aside and sorted,have you got a college nearby to you that trains up hairdressers? they are often wanting people to go and become models for 'wannabe hairdressers' and at all times,the 'trainer' is there to watch their every step, and to make sure that you are happy,plus it is far far cheaper than the hairdressers salon. The college may also do a beauty course,and again need people who are prepared to become a model for a pupil.

As I don't know where you live,it is difficult to help much further,except to say,that if you have a Debenhams nearby,they have 'Personnal Shoppers' service available which is free by appointment,who will help you out with any outfit you want, whether it is for a 'Special Occasion' e.g.Wedding etc,New look for a new job or just to get things right in your own wardrobe and need a basic foundation on which to work from.As I said,it is a free service,but you need to be strong and not be persuaded to spend more than you want to,however,the P.A.will advise you,quite rightly,that the place to start is your underwear,for as was said to me quite recently,"You can spend as little or as much as you want to on your top clothes,but they look nothing if your underwear is all wrong"

Apart from all of the above,I agree with the others, Books, magazines and exercise are also a great starting point.

Good Luck.