Foxie,im sorry about your mum and glad your in a happier place now.
Wispa,i'm so so sorry about your dad as well, my mum died of lung cancer with secondary brain mets,it was awful,she didnt deserve to suffer like that,and with the fact that she was in a nursing home which didnt really do the nursing bit ( a very well known name as well ) it was an awful time,i was with her when she died and i think she knew i was there which im sure helped her.

Thanks everyone for all you support today.Take care,x