Hi Debbie, sorry to hear your news.Im sure with a friend like you she will have the best support.As others have said your posts are always caring,Im sure being just you,as you always are,is all that she needs.I would certainly be pleased to have a friend like you.I think telling her ,how you told us,about how you feel and being there at any time for her,is a good start.All the best for your friend,and you of course, Suee xxx