Hi Debbie...I am so sorry..every womans nightmare and happening to your dear friend...I think you do all those things you question whether you should do...you ring and write you let her know how much you are there for her...she is scared lonely trapped..and the last thing she needs is to feel all on her own...often is the case in sitations like this that people run...afraid of what to say..she is still your friend..and I would be yourself with her...no special treatment just carry on as you have been ,,there for her...xxx

I do hope she will be ok....x

My friend is waiting for results...??sarcoma...could have infiltrated muscle bone etc etc....we are both nurses...It has brought us closer and I ring her every day now....I think if it were me I to would want to know people were rooting for me...xx