No I dont want to stop either, a glass of a nice red is one of my greatest pleasures.

I was really pleased when OH noticed the difference. I explained all about the forum and showed him some of the posts, he was very impressed with the support everyone gets from what are, really, total strangers, except that no one feels like a stranger, just friends that I cant quite put a face too. ( But then I often hear my family talking about people I know and I cant quite put a face to them either!! So that is no great problem for me, My OH laughs and calls it my fuzzy world, but I like my fuzzy world, there are no sharp edges and its all sort of soft and squidgy)