Yes, we are all thinking of you at such a difficult time and no wonder your blood pressure is high, you are under a lot of stress. It makes me so cross when bosses take this attitude and don't realise a happy worker is a premium worker. You must go back to the doctors and stay away from the J-O-B!! I learnt a long time ago, it is YOU and your health who are the most important.

Please look after yourself and try not to worry whatever your boss is thinking. Give yourself time to grieve. Your doctor I am sure will back you up on this and give you the time you need to sort things out and get back on to an even keel. Meanwhile go above your boss and speak to Human Resources who I am sure will be far more understanding.