Valaber,
well done with the wine abstinance, for myself I was Ok for the first few days but to be honest, I always get a bit anxious before my husband gets home, silly but suddenly after all these years I think he wont fancy or love me anymore!! Naturally he is just so pleased to see me and get home that it all is just me getting nervous and then I feel silly but a glass of wine does tend to settle the nerves!! Not a good excuse I know but its just a symptom of my low self esteem! But hey, well done you, you spur me on to try harder.