Hi Holly as I read your post I was nodding I find myself chasing my tail every day having just completed 4 years of studying and now a qualified nurse bringing up 3 children with my first grandchild arriving in 8 weeks I find I rarely have time for me things.My OH is about as much use as a chocolate teapot he thinks the little fairies do the cleaning, cooking and ironing. I do my food shopping via internet and is delivered which is a godsend. I don't think there is an easy solution just making small changes such as shopping delivered, making list and prioritising what needs to be done now and what can wait
Remember life to short to worry about dusting and the pile of ironing - put your feet up with a box of chocs and watch a chick flick xx