Just to say I agree with everyone's posting - plus, HAD to say - just LURVE Biogirl's 'The Trollope'.. Brilliant!

DO hope you call her that to everyone, including ex and herself of course!

What always strikes me about women like that is this - why would anyone want a man who is prepared to ditch his wife? Hardly a recommendation, is it!

All the best, Julie

(PS - I appreciate there are some wives who DO deserve to be ditched, mind you, and that some 'other women' are actually rescuing very put-upon men.)