Totally agree, our two have had p/t jobs since they were 13yr and have always had to contribute in some way. Ł25 seems a little high to me but you have to weigh up the pros/cons. Our daughter pays Ł13 per week but has always done her own washing and does a lot of cleaning for me. We bought her a car (cheap one) but she runs it. She is also expected to save in her ISA. Son still at Uni and always very short of money !! back now and has a summer job and is looking for a 2nd one. Hardly any of their friends have had to work and most have had cars (new with personalised plates!!) bought for them, but we discussed it and they understand our feelings - it is'nt about the money it is about responsibility within the family. If they are a bit short of money I ask them to cook us a meal instead.....