Just sending you my best wishes Alison. I really understand the pain you are going through. I know you say he had no faults but I wonder how wonderful a man is when he can do what he has done to you without a word of explanation? If you took him back how long would it be before you tackled him about it, and how long would it be before you started to resent his lack of communication? I feel that even if you got back together it would not be the same. Stay strong. x