Laney,

You are indeed a brave woman, not only for sharing this awful dilemma with us, but for asking for advice.

The advice you have been given above is excellent, and I do hope that you will take heed and ask for it.

My own father was a bully, not so much to us, but certainly to my mother, and reading your post caz brought back really sad memories for me, as my father hit my mother right up to the day that she died, and she was 80!!! I had no knowledge of this, but a neighbour of my mother told me at her funeral. I remember he hit her so much when we were young, but didnt think it had continued.

Please get help, and once again start to live a happy and violent free life, you deserve to.

Plasmo x