Oh dear, your poor friend, what a mess. Alarm bells rang as soon as I read 'African boyfriend.' These guys can be so charming. I would think first contact the CAB, as unfortunately they'll have dealt with similar situations before. Then the administrators of the Christian website, then her Solicitor, if she has one (if not, CAB will suggest one, I'm sure) IF he is genuine, although sadly it seems unlikely, that might be enough to shock/shame him into trying to refund at least some of her money. Even if she doesn't get her money back any time soon, just knowing she's doing something concrete will help. Do let us know how she gets on.