Having just read some of the 'Spark gone' thread, I thought I would ask for my own set of advice....

Having had a child 2 years ago, gained weight, had early an menopause, husband had an affair etc.
I find it impossible to feel intimate with him. He is a nice man, a good man and it was my decision to stay with him.
I just don't feel sexy, I have zero sex drive. Not even a desire to visit Anne Summers!

How do I get back what I have lost?