Wanted to say

and welcome to the forum. Lots of good advice given already so I wont add more.
I am 56 and married 34 yrs our son is 23 this summer.
My OH and I work together at home and in school so I don't have much time when he's not around.That makes our marriage a bit unusual.
I do miss my lovely son but he is making his own way and learning to be independent at Uni, which is what we all want for our children
We are NOT so good when it's holiday time but we both like taking photos and walking in the countryside and of course we have our music too. We always talk, OH does much more than I do but both appreciate each other even tho we might not say it enough.
Do hope you can meet up with a local forum group.
All the best from Cecilia