Hi
Relationships are hard work and there have been times in our 31 yr marriage that we haven't liked the other person BUT you have to work through the difficult bits. If your Oh isn't giving what you want then look at what you can do to bring excitement in your marriage. This might mean making the first move and telling him what you like sexually...don't expect him to make the first move.

Men find it difficult to understand women but in my experience like to think that they are in charge...so let him think that but you can do a lot to manipulate the situation.

Good luck and it is worth making the effort because you will have a stronger relationship at the end.