There are givers and takers. OH has said many times that we are always the ones who say yes if anyone asks for help but if we need help everyone else is 'busy'. You're far from alone. We have a couple of close friends who we see regularly (usually we visit them because their work means they can't get away easily) but rarely get visitors. I think one of the reasons many of us are here is because we get the support we don't get elsewhere.

As Annemari said we all have each other here.