Hi Ifdanny - My children are still at home but my OH works long hours in a stressfull job too. He is either exhausted and switches off or snappy and grumpy when he gets home. it can be a strain when the children are around.
At weekends he is a different person - fun and caring.
The stress of work has alot to answer for in families today and I dont envy men who are trying hard to make a living in the current climate. He has been a good husband all these years - maybe you need to get away together and have a change of routine. Also its time to find out who you are and persue some new hobbies or supper/walking clubs - make your own friends.Perhaps there is a hobby you could both do to meet other couples and take his mind off work. Wishing you all the best.