Hello all,
I'm new on the forum and have joined as I'm needing some sisterly advice if you can.
I've had a good relationship with my daughter up until a couple of weeks ago, she's not had boyfriends as such, although boys have always been part of the social group she's in. She's 16 and just started dating a 21yr old, and it seems all has changed since then as she's lying and not keeping in touch with her whereabouts as she has done before. My husband and I are not happy with her dating someone so much older than her but as she would continue seeing him anyway we have not forbidden the relationship (I know it would make him more appealing). This morning she just dropped a bombshell by asking if she could stay overnight at his place tonight - I was quite taken aback and said no, when she asked again I said we'll talk this evening. I don't want to look like I'm supporting this pairing but I know it's natural she is exploring her sexuality and growing more independent, I guess it's all just come on so quickly. I'd appreciate advice from those who've been through it. Thank you.

Debra