Hello and thank you so much for contacting me. It's really nice to hear that others have experienced similar situations and, because we are "strangers" I don't feel bad about going on and on (even with close friends there's a limit to how much heartache they can listen to!), so even though there's a way to go before I reach your own conclusions, I do appreciate the opinions. No, it's not easy right now but maybe 6 months down the line I will be able to look back and be glad of the time we shared