Afternoon ladies.................there is a lot of information given here and I do agree with a lot of it.

Kate1 - I think your idea is great and one that I have tried on so many occasions to do. However you can only do this if BOTH of you agree.

For me I use to say "lets make Sat a special evening, nice meal and sit and watch a dvd together on the settee and just be us". OH always said that it would be nice but when it came to Sat and I started to do the meal he would be on the computer. Have to drag him away for dinner and then said he was just going back on again for a little while. After 1 hour I would ask if he was coming in to watch dvd and his answer was always "I am in to this now, you can have the tv." So I just gave up, was not worth the effort.

Now he wonders why we don't have much in common!!!! MEN

I wish you all luck with relighting your fires..........unfortunately mine went out long ago. Now there is no fire, no kissing, no cuddling just banter and friendship.