He refuses to go to a daycentre, I have discussed this with the care manager who arranged a place for him at a popular location. He was to be picked up at 10.00am and brought home at 3.00pm following a hot meal, morning coffee and afternoon tea. He called them up the day before and cancelled and told them not to bother about putting him on a waiting list for any other activities. He just wants me to visit, do his shopping, make his meals and take him for days out in the car.