My parents disliked my ex OH at first. Said he wasn't good enough for me etc, etc. of course i didn't listen and married him and had 2 children. They then got to quite like him (in fact i think they preferred him to me) until 18 years later, he ran off with a 27 yr old and now they don't like him again and remind me that they always said he wasn't good enough for me. So they did a full circle. As for me disliking my D's partners, thankfully she is too young for all that, but I can't see anyone being good enough for my little princess!