Hi Sussexgirl65,

I think that it's important that the husband makes it clear that he's with his wife on this one.

It's her problem if she can't get on with you. Don't let it eat away at your self esteem.

I was lucky, my MIL was fun and we always had a good giggle together. Not that we didn't have our differences, but we let it simmer then got on with life. Writing of her in the past tense of course as she died some years ago - and I still miss her.