Emilykate - i have only just read this post and feel so sorry for you. Your marriage was over years ago and you have been strong enough to continue in it for the sake of your children, now you must be strong enough for you all to have a life without him.
Get some practical advice from Citezens advice or a solicitor - your husband can not just throw you out.
Headgirl - i had no idea you were going through such a difficult time, i really hope things work out well for you.
There is life after divorce - many of us on here are happily married second time around and now realise what a crap marriage we had first time and are glad to be out of it. Think of this time as a new chapter, a chance to do whatever you want with your life - i wish all you ladies all the best. GROUP HUG!!!