No, but sometimes wish I was. My D's say I am like the mum in "meet the Fockers", the laid back anything goes one. Thing is they dont have much to rebel against so they do it by not getting tattos or piercings I think, and the fact that I talk about anythig doesn't go down to well either, also I am too compassionate, make too many excuses for bad behaviour (we are talking things like child crime here) etc etc, sometimes I wonder who's the grown up.