I wanted to thank everyone for the PM's and their kind words.

I packed up his stuff late last night convinced that he wasn't coming home and was going to move out today but he suprised me by taking the day off saying he missed me and wanted to spend some time with me, i'm pleased to say the wedding ring is back on.

He knows we need to talk but i think he shocked himself more then me. Its been really nice and this was all i wanted, although I dont want to go through this again just to get a day off.

Im counting my blessings and enjoying his company.

I have also promised myself i will regularly have wine in the bath and go to bed early. It was really nice to have some peace.