Hi Hilary42. I think your post might not be seen here. Try re-posting on the Your Lives part of the forum, as a separate new post, to introduce yourself and also on the Supperclub message board to ask if anyone would like to meet for coffee. There might also be a supperclub in that area as well.
I've sent you a message - click on the flashing envelope underneath your name (next to User Options) at the top of the page to open.