What a strange thing to happen. When my ED was at Ui her and her flat mates were able to have anything in their rooms apart form candles and pets. It wouldn't have occured to us to check if it was ok. ( she didn't take a toaster bcause the smoke alarm would have gone off )

I know what you mean about the mess in the kitchen. Luckily my ED was ok as her and her mates were always sharing food - though cleaning up always fell to my ED and one other.