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I have had the same thing from my OH, he is a workaholic and he has done the same thing to me as well, we even sleep in different bedrooms,this came out of the blue as well, but we are still together and I dont see alot of him either, if I were you I would do what mollymandy said and spoil him and then ask him if he still wants a divorce.If the answer is yes then see a solicitor, if the answer is no, then you will know that he is stressed out.

P.S.I have found that men dont like the 'lets talk' bit, as they dont like to talk openly about their feelings, take it from somebody who has been married for 26yrs.