Three of my four have now left, the one remaining is way too old to still be at home. ED was engaged but had the courage to end it. since Tuesday she has been visiting ES and Oh! the silence, I can honestly say that the only benefit to her not being here is that the toilet roll lasts a lot longer. Still I have had a trial run to what it will be like when she finally does leave, it won't be easy, but I have put in over thirty years of parenting and will learn to adjust. So will you, in time Anndotty. Best wishes xG