Lulubells, I know exactly where you are coming from. I had two sons and loved them to bits, but I was sure there was another child out there waiting to be born. That feeling got stronger as I got into my early 40s - there is a good biological reason for that, as a woman's fertility has a little peak then, a sort of final fling pre-menopause.

My d. was not, however, a "planned" baby - my then OH was pretty unenthusiastic. The pregnancy was hard work and I don't think that I ever fully recovered physically. I felt too that as she was growing up, I was not as active with her as I was with the boys. Having said that, she has been a great joy to me - and kept me young in other ways. I think, however, having a teenage boy around in ones late 50s might be more of a challenge!