Totally agree Bonnie, I'm quite a big lady and although i would like to loose a bit of weight for health reasons i have no desire to be less than a size 14/16 - i like food and i think Nigella Lawson is alot more attractive to men than Victoria Beckham. It never ceases to amaze me how these magazines can feature diets on one page and people with eating disorders on the next. A lovely girl i knew recently died at the age of 42 following years of annorexia related health problems - she had damaged most of her internal organs through starving herself.
My OH would rather have me plump and happy than stick thin and miserable.