I haven't commented on your posts Burdie because I have not been in your situation so find it difficult to say more than good wishes. My own 86-year old father lives with my older sister and is in good health. I do find your posts very interesting though. What you are going through seems to really shine through and it is the details that make it so easy to empathise with. I am sure there are lots of people who are not registered, or who do not post, who look for your threads because it is helping them. x x