for the past few years I have had a run of bad luck, or so I thought: bad health suddenly arriving out of the blue to be designated disabled; death of my mother; a family feud not of my making; discovering who my real friends are; looking at my marriage my family and thinking why is a nice person like me stuck with them: bereavement on several counts.
To wake up in the morning thinking oh god here I am again
wandering around the house in pjs, to be cross examined by those who love me "what have you done with your day" myself feeling outraged as prior to this for 30 years I had two jobs, energy, like a little hamster on a wheel that never stopped until I ended up in A & E! outraged how dare they!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but of course the above is myself suddenly getting off that wheel and my past catching up, time to think, time to grieve, time to take stock.
Now I get up at 9 am, and have discovered I am the poor womans version of Nigella Lawson, avidly baking cakes
which is wierd a cake maker I was not! my daughter said to me the otherday, Gran is channelling through you mum
and I think she is, I am learning to like being alone (in spirit) and am stronger mentally ..... I dont know where we will be living in 2009 but then who in reality does
Yes I am getting better, those black thoughts are few and far between
The reason for my post is you may have a friend, relative who has had a bad few years like me......... go easy on them they are just trying to figure things out xx 
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