My YD (11) is going up to snior school in september. Last night was her Leavers disco at school. She went with her friend S. When I went to pick them up my D was sobbing. She said E and J (J was/is her best friend since infants) had ruined her last disco and was being mean to her. My D had walked away but E kept going back to her and saying things. E & J are quiet dominant characters and my D is not, when the oither 2 are really pally they can be quite horrible!Now I know girls fall in and out all the time but there has been a few incidents and I have spoken to the class teacher who said there has been other complaints with those 2. The year head teacher came over and spoke to me last night and said to go and see him monday, which I will. But I was livid last night that her disco had been ruined for her and that they couldn't just leave her alone. I was going to speak to them but D wouldn't let me! I spoke to S's mum at drop off as s was unhappy too. And she has had a few problems with the other 2. E is not going to the same snr school thankfully.
I know my D is not all sweetness and light! but I would hate it if she was being horrible to others and I would want to know and speak with her.
I have slept on it and I am still angry about it! Problem is I am very friendly with J's mum and will see them at a function tomorrow. Whilst I have mentioned the odd thing to her I am sure she thinks my D is woosie!!! But if if they are genuinally upsetting my D I don't think that is acceptable.
Sorry bit long winded! Am I over reacting?! Should I just let it all settle down?
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Should I just let it all settle down?
