Today my ex OH has told me that he has met someone new who will be in regular contact with the children on their visits, I accept that this would happen although it still hurts, My problem is that I feel quite negative about my situation and I hate feeling this way, compared to many people I am fortunate but I feel overwhelmed by my life and responsibilities and find it difficult to make decisions and move forward, I want my chldren to have a gOod upbringing but I feel that whatever I do or provide will never be good enough and never as good as what their father could provide, particularly with his new partner/ improved soial setting and high income, how can I believe in myself more and stop comparing mtself unfavourably to him? sorry if this sounds so self absorbed but I just feel I have to leave it out.
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