Hi everyone, i have just been arranging to meet my youngest daughter and 2 of my granddaughters at Sainsburys, do a bit of shopping, have a coffee. I always feel so blessed and lucky that we are a close family who enjoy spending time time together, we all get on really well and i have two lovely sons-in-law.One major thing we are going through at the moment is one of my SIL is having major hear surgery again next Wednesday , all the family are rallying round to help out as the op's in Birminham except his own mother.She hasnt offered ANY help at all with looking after the children,i personally cant understand this attitude, i know she will want to at the hospital for the first few days but after that i need help looking after the grandchildren, shes been asked but " she doesnt know what shes doing yet "Im happy to have them to help ease the worry for my daughter and sil but can any of you understand her attitude cause i really cant.She never volunteers to babysit,never plays with the children when she visits them, she doesnt work,i have taken leave from my fulltime job to help, can you tell this has annoyed me !!!! sorry for the rant girls.
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