'On top of that my OH let me know that he is unhappy in our marriage. He says it isn't working. He can't stand the fact that I am no longer a trim size 12 and in my thirties. Mind you I'm not exactly huge! He doesn't fancy me at all and so isn't even affectionate let alone anything else.. The big BUT is that he doesn't want to hurt me ( I pointed out that he already has! ) and doesn't like the idea of splitting up our beautiful home and family... '
I posted this some weeks ago - life has continued much the same - OH is friendly-ish but isn't affectionate and I feel I might as well be invisible - as a woman - if you know what I mean
I am fearful of us splitting up, although I have made it clear that I will not leave him. I believe the covenant I made in our marriage. BUT I am sad to think that I might be unloved for ever and ever. Am being a real worry guts & misery