Well ladies...not being one for airing my woes in public, I've put this off for ages but I know others have benefitted from the wonderful advice from other forumers so-here goes! My OH and I are going through a VERY difficult patch at the moment. I have considered relate but he won't go and I feel it would be too one-sided if I went alone. The other problem is it's very expensive and it's money we can't really afford at the moment. So, I was wondering, does anyone have any ideas, books anything really that could help? I know I haven't gone into detail about our problems (can't bring myself to!) but suffice to say we are both at fault and OH has kind of withdrawn from me so much that I can't seem to get through to him. We are both suffering, but while I am the "let's talk it through" type-he isn't. He just loses his temper! I would really appreciate any help or advice even though I realise I haven't given you much to go on! Thanks a lot
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