kate1
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Reged: 18/08/2008
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Loc: Leicestershire
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Would you still choose to marry the same person?
My husband of 29yrs died nine years ago...awful time, just terrible.
But now I am married to a man I fell in love with, as if I was fifteen again. We have been married just over a year.We started living together four years ago after we had know each other for only four months.I just knew it was right, and I would choose him from all men.
Oh, and I appreciate what I've found every day.
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Silver
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Reged: 28/01/2008
Posts: 112
Loc: Didsbur, South Manchester
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Oh Kate,
That is such a heartwarming post, congratulations on finding your new man, enjoy and be happy.
In answer to your question, I don't know, sometimes I would probably say no it did not really work out out as I imagined it would, however other times I am content and happy with my man (not today though) good luck anyway.
Silver
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I have three daughters, two grown up and married and one teenager, and I love cats.
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PLASMO
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Reged: 13/03/2008
Posts: 4786
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Kate,
It is so lovely to hear of your personal story, and how it has ended so happily after such sadness, it really warms the cockles of my heart.
You sound so very happy now Kate, and I really hope you continue to do so.
I am really fortunate, as you know Kate, we have been married for a long time, and I would certainly marry the same person today, he is everything I ever wanted in a husband and more.
Plasmo xx
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lynnyb
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Reged: 29/08/2008
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yep, he is a pest, untidy and no fashion clothes horse but he has COPD for the last 3 years and this certainly sorts out the fainthearted but after 29 years together he is still the one for me
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annemari
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Reged: 07/03/2008
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Loc: Gloucestershire.
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Hi Kate
After a fateful start to my experience in married life,to end up third time lucky is beyond my wildest dreams. but,it is for me so YES! YES! YES! YES! like you I felt like a fifteen year old all over again and ten years later the feeling hasn't gone.
I love looking out the window when my OH is due home,see his van coming up the road,turn the kettle on and look out of the window again. Everytime he pulls up I think to myself 'that's my man, by crikey I'm lucky'
Sounds daft but that's what true love does to you.
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Annemari xx
 "Hey Tinker,Mums a proud and bouncy TwiddleTigger"!! "Eric,Have you seen Mum's pinny?"
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cupcake
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Reged: 15/02/2008
Posts: 3500
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definitely, especially after he went and got my hangover cure and didn't moan at me for drinking too much. I would have given him hell!!!!
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Spanishlady
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Reged: 21/01/2008
Posts: 1809
Loc: Torrevieja Spain
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Oui Oui I would marry my Sexy Frenchman all over again , we did talk about doing it again arouond our anniversary 35 years but I though no oooooooooooooo I`d rather do the honeymoon again!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Snowy1066
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Reged: 08/07/2008
Posts: 4061
Loc: Southeast
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OOOoh La La, Spanish Lady!!
Plasmo I'm with you, I'm 34 yrs married and we've had the usual ups and downs, and I could have run away sometimes when things got tough, but am so glad I didn't.
He's not perfect by any means, but then neither am I by a long shot.
But he's worked hard all his life, he's honest,faithful, a good father, got a sense of humour (when I just told him lots of people were ill on the forum, he said had they got a computer virus and laughed his silly head off!)and he's kind.
Sometimes he doesn't listen like I'd like him to, sometimes he is wrapped up in his own stuff, sometimes I wished he take more interest in what I like.
But I'm happy, content, chilled and pleased to be spending the rest of my life with him.
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blossom97
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Reged: 02/02/2008
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Most definately yes.I have travelled and lived in a number of countries and I met and married "the boy next door"!!We are very alike and love each other to bits!
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rosettastone
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Reged: 11/03/2008
Posts: 523
Loc: Kent/Surrey borders
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Quite simply ..yes no more to say 
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carpe diem - seize the day!
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wispa
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Reged: 16/01/2008
Posts: 2220
Loc: Suffolk,
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All those wasted years with my Ex-husband, pretending to be the perfect family. But then, I would never have had my wonderful children.
Marrying the current OH - no regrets at all
..wispa
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issi
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Reged: 30/09/2007
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Loc: Surrey
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No.
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Ashbee
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Reged: 13/06/2008
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Not the first but definately the second.
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Mollymandy
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Reged: 01/08/2008
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Not the first two, but without hesitation my OH of the past 5 years.
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ChrissiFi
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Reged: 28/06/2006
Posts: 1450
Loc: Somerset
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Yes. I'd known him for at least 7 years before we got together. There have been good days and bad days but my kife's richer for being with him.
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lily50
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Reged: 28/03/2007
Posts: 116
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Met at 15, married at 18, never have been with anyone else and after 37years of marriage still love him to bits, so yes absolutely!!
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lizalou
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Reged: 01/02/2008
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(must answer this question as well as the previous OH one)
( lovely to hear of your happy 2nd marriage, Kate)
Of course I would marry 2nd OH- still think he's perfect after almost 18 years!
But wish I'd just 'lived with' 1st husband (mum would have had a fit!) Would have been much easier to get out of.
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Tufty
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Reged: 26/02/2008
Posts: 209
Loc: Hampshire
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It's a NO from me!!
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TFG
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Reged: 10/10/2007
Posts: 1104
Loc: Milton Keynes
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Absolutely- NOT!
Wish I'd met my current BF 30 years ago-he makes me feel good every day.
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Glynis
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Reged: 06/06/2008
Posts: 121
Loc: East Yorkshire
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I'm like you lily50 met my guy at 15 and married at 17, I think I just wished I had waited until I new my-self a bit better,and lived a bit more, but he's still the one I want to be with. Even after 36years x x
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