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jessica
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You would think the EX would give up after 27 years
      #131697 - 14/06/2008 21:54

My OH ex has just been phoned with a mystery phone call from a friend that he hasn't heared from in 40 years, a chap who he worked with. The chap is visiting OH ex-wife, (thankfully she lives at the other end of the country), but she collects old friends and gets them to speak to him on the phone.
We went to a family celebration some time ago and at the time I thought it funny but she spent the time and opportunity manovering him into a place where she could talk and reminise(?).
They have now come off the phone. It seems they were on the overhead and there was chap and his wife that OH went to school with, they asked OH what he thought of his ex. They are hoping to arrange another get together!!. OH is now a wreck because of the over head and is worried that he might have said something to out of place.
Sorry just got it off my chest, I apologise to any ex's out there but this ones a BL...Y pest.
I'm certian she is doing all she can to get him back. I'm bloody sure she would dance on my grave


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skippy
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Re: You would think the EX would give up after 27 years [Re: jessica]
      #131776 - 15/06/2008 08:56

Hi Jessica - it does seem a bit odd - why does she even have your phone number after all these years - did they have children together? If i were your husband i would tell her in no uncertain terms that im not interested and if she doesn't leave you alone i will change our phone number.
I would hate to have old work colleagues foistered on me out of the blue (unless they were very good friends)
Has this woman re-married?

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wispa
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Re: You would think the EX would give up after 27 years [Re: skippy]
      #132007 - 15/06/2008 19:28

I had a phone call from some "friends" 15 years after my OH and I had divorced. Well, they were more the ex-OH friends than mine. The wife was okay, but the husband was an arrogant PITA. They were down this way on holiday, and thought they would like to catch up. After 15 years? After I had remarried? After I had moved 3 times? How did they get my new address, phone number?

Did they really want to see me? Or were they checking up to report back. What do you think?

I promised to to check my diary and call back, but I lost their phone number. Allegedly.

..wispa


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jessica
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Re: You would think the EX would give up after 27 years [Re: wispa]
      #132213 - 16/06/2008 10:50

I know what you mean Wispa, Have gone into more deatil with Skippy. The school friend and wife(now they are retired) seem to spend their time traveling around the country meeting up with people from decades ago. They called in on us about 3 years ago on there way through to somewhere else but they left it very late and I think they were hoping to stay but I pointed them in the direction of the Travel Lodge, 5 hours of the wife was enough for me when she dangles morsals of infromation then says "I couldn't possible disclose any more" when she does that I change the subject which ps her off, but all this is fed back to the Ex because snippets come back via OH daughter who 30 and lives near her mum OH phones her to get an update on his grandsons.

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