Viewing a situation from all sides may be common sense but as you know this behaviour tends to produce endless delays, with the result that those with whom you have had dealings over many years become frustrated. With this in mind, say what you mean and do what you say. You almost certainly know what you want to do, and waiting until you can find a way to emerge smelling like a rose is only prolonging the agony. Other people have a fair idea of the way you are leaning, so bite the bullet. In roughly four weeks a lunar eclipse in your sign could make for some unnecessary upsets and ruptures in a relationship.